you are wrong
Being a nice family
Enjoy the moment
Get rid of insecurity
Goal in life
Influences on children
Learning new things
"Nobody cares about me"
Relation, who fits to who
What is respect
What is self esteem
Why do children say why
Women need to talk
This site about improving yourself, could help you a lot. Much more then you could imagine. Don't worry, I am not going to brainwash you. It is only about getting you to a higher level of living your life. I know from personal experience it is possible.
If you think you cannot improve your life because everything is perfect, you could be right, but probably you are wrong. It can be a lot better as you think. This info could be the most important self improvement info you have found. It is because the approach is different.
I am not asking you to believe everything I say. Just be open minded and judge for yourself. What if I am right and it is possible to improve your life. But :
Don't think I am the way I am. Yes, you are the way you are, but that doesn't mean you cannot change things. You are not a machine that is stuck to the way it is running now. A car runs like a car and will always run like a car. And after several years, it will go downhill slowly because of age. You are much more than that. You can go uphill with age.
You, and other humans, do not work like a machine. You can maintain what you are right now and improve things, so you can go to better places. Wit better places, I mean feeling better and improve your relations with others. You have grown mentally from your birth. So why shouldn't you be capable of growing further.
Please don't think you cannot change. Everybody can change. But if you are afraid of info that could change your life, than this site "Improving yourself" is not right for you. If you are open minded and / or not happy with yourself, stay.
To avoid misunderstanding, this all is not religion based. Or some weird kind of guru approach. It is just plain info with the option of improving yourself. If you want to know more about me and my path of development, see "About me" using the link to my home page. That is a long read, because there is a lot about me.
A lot of info will be about parenting and raising children. In this area, a lot of things go wrong and it doesn't have to be. In short, if you do not approach children the right way, three things will happen:
Most of the time, parents are thinking they are doing the right things with their children. Well, most of the time they are wrong. Sorry I have to say this, but many parents are ruining their children. This varies from a not so bad attitude to completely messing them up. If someone becomes an aggressor, thief, alcoholic, drug user or insecure, parents have done something wrong. A child is not born like that.
But, don't misunderstand me, most of the time, parents are not doing this on purpose. They don't realize what they are doing.
Most of the time parents want the best for their children. But because parents do not realize enough how children should be approached, things go (very) wrong. Most parents think they can raise a child because they were raised. So if you are a happy adult with no problems with your parents at all, you could be doing the right things.
But in other cases, doing it the same way will cause the same problems. Doing the opposite could also be wrong. Going from no attention to over spoiling, can also a ruin a child. And you will get the opposite problems.
You were raised by your parents and using this as an example is most of the time not enough. Probably you haven't studied for being a parent and we'll see what happens, is not a solid foundation.
There is definitely a right and many wrong ways of raising children. Wrong ways will always cause problems and tension between parents and children. And an out of balance future adult. This doesn't have to be. Treating children the right way, will not cause problems. And it will create strong children which can survive on their own as adult. And this is the purpose of raising children.
Many info of mine is general. I can't be specific. I cannot go into detail. That is for parent to fill in and it also depends on the circumstances. I cannot say what time a fourteen year old child should be home. It depends on the maturity of the child, where one lives, who one is meeting, etc.
Because the things I am saying here are general guidelines, it is much shorter. With details, I have to describe everything. This is not possible, as explained. And they are guidelines, not strict rules for programming a child.
If you want to be informed by new info on this site "Improving yourself", visit this site regular. If you think I am making sense, read the same info again. The first step is recognizing usable info. The second step is using it. And I know, changing is not easy.